Take yourself easy
You must have heard somewhere that complimenting yourself or saying some nice things about yourself every now and then can make you more confident. Well, let me tell you that it won’t. I believe that you must not lie to yourself that you are very awesome or anything.
Instead, try to accept everything about yourself as it is. Learn to admit your faults and try to let off yourself if you are not what you want yourself to be and what other people might expect from you to be. Take yourself easy. Accept yourself as you are.
Rather than being conditional on attaining certain ideals – which mind you makes our sense of self-worth much easily shaken, think about yourself with more self-compassion. Try to feel less humiliated (if at all) or incompetence, or taking things too personally. If you find yourself making a mistake — because that’s what all humans do — then try to treat yourself the kind way you often treat others.
